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Are gay people being too precious?
“What’s the fuss” some say. “Surely you’d just go to another baker. If you know some business will discriminate against you why would you go there.”
The problem with this is that in all these cases the gay couple had no idea of the vendors beliefs, just the service they provided. Had they known, they may or may not have used their services. I think we need to put ourselves in the gay couples shoes for a moment. Unless you’ve experienced being rejected like this you may not have an understanding of what it’s really like.
You’re planning a very special day. You’re in love. You’re excited. You go to the service provider to discuss your plans. Then they dropped the bombshell. “Sorry I can’t provide those services because I’m a Christian and therefore I can’t bake your cake is that would mean I am approving of your lifestyle”. …..or words to that effect.
How does it make you feel to have someone say that to you? This may also have been said so that others around overheard.
Do the gay couple smile politely and say ‘thanks for letting us know’, then leave?
At that moment you feel many things. Humiliated. Embarrassed. Crushed. Shamed. Mortified. Rejected. Angry. Lots of emotions. And what some people forget is that experiences like this can trigger past hurt and trauma for LGBT people. Most gay and lesbian people have experienced the pain of rejection in their lives. Some many times. Some of us have been rejected by our churches, Christian friends and family. It’s painful. It hurts.
Subjecting gay and lesbian people to further experiences of rejection and trauma is cruel. Legislation to make it legal is not in the spirit of the law which is designed to protect not harm isn’t it?.
Will you serve me I’m gay?
If religious freedom laws are introduced then it gives people the right to discriminate. I don’t believe that gay and lesbian people should have to go around asking businesses and business owners the ridiculous question “Will you serve me/can I purchase your goods/services I’m gay?’
Maybe the solution would be for Christian businesses and business owners to have large signs in their premises saying “We are Christians. Because of our Christian beliefs we don’t serve members of the LGBT community”. Signs like these used to be in shops like “No coloured served here”. Of course this is also ridiculous. I also doubt they’d be willing to do it as it that would mean that family and friends of LGBT people would also walk out and therefore they’d lose more business.
Isn’t this claim on religious freedom hypocritical?
Let’s take the example of the cake baker. Do they question every person who wants them to bake a cake for their wedding and ask them questions like. “Are you both virgins? Have you been living together before you get married?”. No they don’t. Why? Because it’s rude and actually none of their business. But yet it IS against their Christian beliefs that say no sex outside of marriage. They bake the cake without so much of blink of the eye or a twinge of conscience. This is hypocritical to target just one group of people who don’t fit into your belief system and conveniently ignore the rest. It is most likely more about a homophobic attitude than a Christian belief.
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