We’d been standing for nearly three hours waiting for the parade to begin. The participants next to us began to move off indicating we were only minutes away from making history……..I looked around at our Freedom2b group of 40 and couldn’t hold back the tears any longer.
It had been a tough few days……there had been personal attacks against me in the media and our group targeted by various Christian activist groups. Rev Nile, leader of the Christian Democratic Party said in his media release 02.03.07, “I call upon Anthony Venn-Brown and these marchers to withdraw from this blasphemous, obscene parade and not bring the Name of Jesus Christ into disrepute”.
It wasn’t the personal attacks that upset me though. You see……after telling my story, I live in the privileged position of knowing 1,000’s of people’s stories as they email me or tell me personally. Their stories have touched my heart and they all came flooding back in that moment before we marched off.
I thought of the individuals in our group and of the journey each had taken to bring them to the place where they were proud enough to march…..a journey of great struggle and heartache. It was inspiring to see these individuals in their new courageous mode. I knew the ones in that group that nearly didn’t make it…….the self-loathing took them to thoughts of killing themselves….some had even attempted. Self-loathing created by a religion that falsely declares you are not worthy of the kingdom of God. God only accepts heterosexuals.
I also thought of the young people we have lost…..Michael, 26, rejected by his Christian parents, who gassed himself in the car. The 16 year old young man, who put his head on the railway track seconds before the train approached because he was tormented by a secret. A secret he knew from the derogatory comments from friends and what he’d heard in church, meant he was an abomination. Bobby, who jumped off a freeway bridge into the path of the oncoming truck and the three young men I’d heard about who suicided in a church in Melbourne.
I thought about the ones we will never hear about because the family is too ashamed to reveal the information in the notes left behind……. all such needless tragedies….oh my God, when will this insanity cease. But I knew that on the 3rd of March 2007 we were drawing a line in the sand…..from now on we will create something new for gay and lesbian people from Pentecostal and Charismatic backgrounds…a safe space….a place of healing……and our visible presence in the parade shows the work has begun.
As I looked around I saw that I was not the only one in our group crying……it seems it was a profound, collective moment for us all. Possibly we were the only entry that began marching in tears. It wasn’t long though before the cheers of the crowd lifted our spirits…….and we waved back at the crowds with our heads held high.And it was that precise moment I wanted Rev. Fred Nile to be there right next to me to see that the Mardi Gras is not all about tits, bums or debauchery as he constantly condemns. It’s a divine moment when you realise how evil the shame and fear that imprisoned you is …..and finally you love the person you were created to be and know that God doesn’t make mistakes.
Jesus said, ‘you will know the truth and the truth shall set you free’.
The truth is I’m GAY and I’m OK and no amount of condemnation or judgement from others will ever again shift me from that profound sense of knowing who I am!
It’s sin on parade!
As a Minister in the Baptist Church and follower of Christ i would like to think that Jesus would identify with those who marched and what they represented, A lover of all human beings without exception. especialy those on the edges!
Whether this guy wants to be gay is his prerogative, but he is leading others to follow his sin. May God have mercy on him.
What a compelling way you have with words Anthony.
May the angry, sex-obsessed people who have only read the Bible from a view of God as an angry God find it in their hearts to re-read this story and think what a loving God would want them to say and do in response to this story.
not leading them into sin surely…. showing them the way to self confident and joyful lives filled with love and compassion for themselves and others.. i am so very proud of you Anthony…
oh how cute! another anonymous person who still firmly believes that a person consciously ‘chooses’ to be gay… my god have mercy on THEM, not us.
oh how CUTE! another anonymous figure who solemnly believes that a person consciously ‘chooses’ to be gay..
may god have mercy on *THEM*.. and the horse they rode in on.
A very dear fried (who just happens to be gay)recently said to me, “we all need to be accepted by someone”. Christians, if we can at least start by showing God’s unconditional love to all, what a different world we would be living in.
As for the freedom 2 b mob, good on you guys for being true to yourself, LOVE ON YOU!!!!.
One out and proud mum……
As a commited Christian person, who happens to be gay, I personally do not support the depauchery that takes place at occasions like Mardi Gras. I think it puts the gay community into reproach and doesn’t do much for the rights we are fighting for.
HOWEVER, I fully support the work of Anthony Venn-Brown and I have read his book. I am also very pleased to see that they marched at Mardi Gras. At last there is some chance that the good news will reach the gay community, since they have been so hatefully excluded by the church for so long. I can personally testify that having God in my life as my rock was life-changing from the day I accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour. It gave me stability as a young gay adolescent where so many others would have turned to drugs, drinking, promiscuity, or suicide. God saved me from all of that. Having God in my life continues to make for a wonderful journey with a hope and a future. This is something that every person needs, no matter who they are. Good work Anthony. I hope your message will help many gay people live good and productive lives. May your work and your message change the lives of many.
Anthony thank you for your testimony, courage, determination, passion, authenticity, love for God and finally for the lives you have changed and given so much hope to. God bless you so much.
I read your book when I was going through such a desperate time of confusion, fear, shame, doubt and unbelief and fighting the fear that I was now bound for a devils hell. Your book helped me immensely and was instrumental in starting the healing process. Thank you, Thank you, Thank yiu
Thanks Steve. And Happy birthday